Upright. Arrived in time for coffeecake. Great to see you Tyler Scott.

 
104390644_10157567328071947_4203454939008183739_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

Upright. Arrived in time for coffeecake. Great to see you Tyler Scott.

Lots of socks. Hungry for socks. Hungry for shoes. Tshirt supply is gone.
The open maw of the street. The maw of lives pushed to edges.
But there is water to distribute. Boxer briefs to hand out. And it will never be enough.
One young man I offer socks to puts up his hand.
'I'm all set. Hold onto them for somebody who got nothing.'
And I do.

Another man hands me a sweatshirt to 'recycle'. I'll wash it and back on the streets it goes.

He has lived experience of addiction. And recovery. And all the messy territory that lives between...

 
104429535_10157564427381947_3952229276518733315_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
He has lived experience of addiction. And recovery. And all the messy territory that lives between these two shores. He has sustained deep personal loss. One of his brothers died from a fatal overdose. Recently. She, as well, recently lost a boyfriend to the same path. They are both employed. Live in a lovely apartment. They choose to visit.
I am just sitting with how that was yesterday to have them hand out packs to folks on the street in his brother's memory. Reflecting on the conversations. How impossible it can feel to make any change. Just how difficult it is to do so. Just how diminished thinking can become out here. Desperation. Urgency. Drama. Being overwhelmed is the norm. Mental illness partners with substance abuse. Trauma is leaking everywhere. Everyone talks at once. No one listening. No one realizing they are talking over someone else. Triggers. Triggers. What's the plan? I need a drink. I need a fix. I need boxers.
For these two to simply arrive. Stand with us. Be kind. Offer something without needing anything. Good medicine. Thank you.

'I been upset lately. I can't even visit the kids. Can't give 'em anything....'

 
104310697_10157561740306947_428730894986974157_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

'I been upset lately. I can't even visit the kids. Can't give 'em anything. That's such a high for me. I was sittin' outside usin' and a 10 year old kid came up to me. I know him from the shelter. He said 'Whatcha' doin' Mikey? That stuff's no good for you, Mikey.' A TEN year old lookin' at me, tellin me this.'

He heads out with a few RICKY,INC. backpacks to help distribute. Bringing a streetfriend up to hopefully find a caseworker. He wants help.
There are tears and tissues and no more coffee cake.

These two young, bright people joined me to distribute backpacks for RICKY,INC.

 
84239921_10157561715966947_7453371339776546885_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
These two young , bright people joined me to distribute backpacks for RICKY,INC. ( Respecting Individuals with Care and Kindness You Matter) This is a non profit started by Bernadette and Rich Giacoppo who lost their son to a fatal overdose. This is Ricky's brother Nick Giacoppo and his girlfriend Virginia Norton, who has also lost people very close to her to fatal overdose.The packs are filled with resource information and practical items, from food to socks to hats to personal hygiene products.
Their presence initiated some conversation regarding use and addiction and rehab. Tough and real.
And one man listening, uncharacteristically wipes his eyes with a wadded up tissue. And asks for help.
'I don't want to live like this no more.'
Thank you Nick Giacoppo, and Virginia and RICKY,INC. for joining us this morning.
Thank you Dear Anonymous.

His face is swollen. Stitches. He leans on his cane...

 
104170620_10157558485846947_686078928851948575_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

His face is swollen. Stitches. He leans on his cane.
Somedays remaining upright is not possible.
Sometimes that ground hits hard.

He struggles.

He is in our world. In this world in which we move about together and move about apart. Soft spoken. Courteous.

He always turns toward me as he leaves, new socks tucked into his front pocket, with a dignified smile and makes eye contact as he lowers his chin, looks up at me and says 'Now you have yourself a good day.'
And when he says it I can feel that possibility. I can feel like I'd like my day to be good because he wishes it so. Maybe I COULD have a good day.

You too, friend. You too.
Thank you Dear Anonymous.

He shows me a little toy a buddy at the shelter gave him...

 
103849807_10157555492201947_5247680313093658702_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
He shows me a little toy a buddy at the shelter gave him. One of the kids he's brought toys to in the past year. Hasn't seen him much during the shut down.
The little boy offers him the key chain. Mike accepts.
'I'll give it back as soon as he wants it.'
He tells me the boy and his mom now have a home.
The boy told him he even has his own room. A first.

He smiles.

Thank you Dear Anonymous.

Did you sleep at all?...

 
103941955_10157555480141947_2638346354101915863_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

Did you sleep at all?
'Sleep? What's that? I roll over and she's not there and then I'm wide awake. I rearranged the bedroom my uncle let me sleep in. I had to do something.'
Have you eaten?
'Nah, can't keep anything down.'

He is thanking the tribal representative who sent this bundle for him. I read the message on the card that was included. He listens. Both our hearts melt. Our eyes collect dew. Yeah, that must be it.
He tucks it tenderly into his shirt pocket. Thank you, Dear Anonymous.

#maggiesmission is the effort of a woman whose daughter died of overdose. She had spent time on these streets...

 
104322931_10157552616006947_8735414847429476380_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
#maggiesmission is the effort of a woman whose daughter died of overdose. She had spent time on these streets. #maggiesmission has supplied in the neighborhood of 100 backpacks for the streets. The streets of 'my pack was stolen last night. AGAIN'. The streets of 'I got nothing'. The streets of people wandering with all they own in a ripped plastic shopping bag. The handles cutting into their fingers.
She had asked me 'Do you think anyone would find any use in this?' holding up a leather over the shoulder bag.
This was his response and his gratitude.
Thank you Dear Anonymous.

The group was mostly beat up this morning. Black eyes. Swollen temples. Blood stains...

 
103972831_10157552603916947_5465437679741305508_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
The group was mostly beat up this morning. Black eyes. Swollen temples. Blood stains. Upset stomaches. Skin troubles.
Bottle of water? Yes.
Do you have any coffeecake? Yes.
Socks. Socks. Socks.
A coffee card. A clean t-shirt.
Winter is rough out here. Summer sometimes looks rougher.
One man exchanges a book with me. I ask if he writes. He nods his head. I hand him an empty journal.
Another picks up another book I've brought along.
I never hear the stories of the black eyes and blood stains.
Of the swollen temples and hospital bracelets.
But they smile and wish me well.
See you tomorrow.
Take care.
Love ya'.
And that's that. I have been blessed again.
Thank you Dear Anonymous. Cards, socks and shirts...a few pairs of pants. Some sneakers help.

Not sure how the conversation got here but Mike tells me his grandfather used to say...

 
102440804_10157546806611947_3022904661249340803_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

Not sure how the conversation got here but Mike tells me his grandfather used to say 'Your ass is grass. And I'm the lawn mower.' and would then thrash him.And then another man chimes in, 'My mom chased me with one of those long oversized wooden cooking spoons and whacked me on the ass....'
Another man passing by trying to get to a bathroom says 'There's a special place in heaven for you guys (Dear Anonymous).
I say, We'll meet you there.
He says, 'I 'll say hello on my way through but that's not where I'm headed. Can't do what I've done in this life and stay in heaven. My friend said 'We die into life. And then he drove his car at top speed into a brick wall.'
He hesitates, pouts his lips and says 'Yeah. He never felt no pain.'

Coffee cards. Socks. Do you have a backpack? You remembered my shoe size! Do you need pants? What size?Bye. Love you. 

It is wet and chilly out here and Mike is shivering. Everyone struggling their struggles...

 
102691627_10157546783741947_7731031775206449872_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

It is wet and chilly out here and Mike is shivering. Everyone struggling their struggles. And exceptionally polite. And kind. In this moment. Always a 'Love ya'' when they leave. Always a consideration of 'How are YOU today?' These two markers of humanity always move me. It is not a given. And when anyone of us is lost in what ever suffering we are suffering, hearts appear to shut down like collapsing origami balloons. All that space that can hold 'other' collapsed.
A piece of coffeecake here. A coffee card there. Finally able to get this one woman some new underwear. She smiles a smile that lights up the street. Mens boxer briefs hold real street cred out here. Handed out as a sacrament of holiness.
No pun intended. They are received with the embodied gratitude of open palms, of two hands opening a tattered bag and accepting them as they drop to the bottom.

Backpacks via #maggiesmission where swept up. Thank you.

Dry socks on a wet day. Divinity.

One man hands me a gift. A copy of THE PLAGUE by Albert Camus. I promise to bring books the next time to swap.

There were three men chatting over cigarettes and there was coffee cake and water and coffee cards...

 
102919635_10157541137216947_1790923561411035207_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

There were three men chatting over cigarettes and there was coffee cake and water and coffee cards. There were socks.
One of them had requested a backpack.
I said, 'I got one but, it's... well, it's pretty.'
They all stop.
How pretty?
I say, 'It's pretty damn pretty.'
I go to the car and show the man who scoffs at it.
Mike on the other hand said 'What the hell? I've thrown bright pink backpacks over my shoulder and walked uptown!'

He takes the very preppy, very white pack, pretty much made for a picnic on a boat heading out from a yacht club.
I said 'So, I see you can do pretty?'
Mike laughs.

And that...that was the moment we both sought.

I told them I would order pink backpacks from here on out. It was met with laughter and groans and a few eye rolls.

I was able to hand out a few pairs of shoes yesterday and there were some happy feet today...

 
103353411_10157534765326947_8851738752334516682_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

I was able to hand out a few pairs of shoes yesterday and there were some happy feet today. Today, a woman needing pants. I have none that fit her. She takes a pair of new men's boxers to wear under her torn ones, open seam in the back. She smiles. A big beautiful smile. And says God bless you. If blessings are being handed out I want to return her blessing. If god is not available I pray she is blessed in all ways by this world.
Mike is having a tough time. Relationship trouble has him seperated from his partner. He slept at a friends for an hour. But he has trouble sleeping, so he wanders. All night. As he does. He's cold and needs dry pants, which I have.
Thank you, Dear Anonymous.

A beautiful day in the neighborhood. If I had had a baby pool...

 
101895705_10157531633241947_4969523267019738542_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
A beautiful day in the neighborhood. If I had had a baby pool we may have all invited one another to roll up our pants and stick our feet in. And I would have loved that.
Another man living rough out here mentions that the BLM protest on Commercial Street last night was the most moving thing he had ever witnessed. Silent, he said.
'It was amazing....' as approximately 2000 people layed themselves down on this street we stand on.
'Amazing...' he says, gently shaking his head and walking his bicycle away.

He has bright aqua eyes that disappear in the crinkled folds of his endearing and disarming smile...

 
102860015_10157531616541947_5620474734636994232_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
He has bright aqua eyes that disappear in the crinkled folds of his endearing and disarming smile. He makes it clear to me that though he is struggling, he is getting a place. An apartment. And soon he says he won't be on the streets like this. He has a job but got laid off back in March and hopes to be able to be rehired.He's having trouble making any ends meet at all.
He is hesitant to take too much of the resources. Won't take any clothing because he can get that elsewhere he tells me. But he is clumping around in a pair of oversized and cracked heavy leather and rubber boots. He lit up when the sneakers arrived.
'My feet are a mess.'
Mostly he wanted to thank you. He wanted to thank whoever Dear Anonymous is. He is really grateful, and a bit stunned.
The last thing he says is 'When I get back on my feet, I want to give back. This has helped.'
Prayers for his sore and painful feet.Thanks, Dear Anonymous.

Haven't seen him for a week or two. Every day I wonder about his whereabouts...

 
101529811_10157531582526947_8808644662358484014_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,

Haven't seen him for a week or two. Every day I wonder about his whereabouts and guys offer me their sightings. But today he is here and giving permission for a rare image. He apologizes for his hair. 'It's ugly.' he says.
I don't see that and I'm not havin' it.
He is a formidable man, size 15 shoe. And has the softest voice. He asks for sage and crumples it in his palm and then pockets it. He is more talkative this morning than many mornings I encounter him. My hearing is poor and though I miss many words I don't miss his sweetness. His internal quiet. Something about him that runs deeper than street talk. Something immensely gentle. 

They always ask how I am. Which is not a given. Which is not a question one can assume will be asked...

 
102374922_10157525220936947_356387482754875392_o.jpg
 

Dear Anonymous,
They always ask how I am. Which is not a given. Which is not a question one can assume will be asked. When folks are really struggling there is little energy or ability to ask a question like that. I ask about those that don't show up. Where's Ed? Chandler? Grey Wolf? The list goes on. The responses vary from shakes of a head to exasperated sighs to knowing silences and sideways glances at the sidewalk.
They ask 'Why do you guys do this? Why are you guys kind to US?' I note the tone of self deprecation. Of loathing.
And the answer is, Why would we not?
Thanks Dear Anonymous for the help with coffee cards and socks and clothing. It all helps. Thank you for connecting.